Is there a point to where putting yourself first becomes selfish?

“There is only one important point you must keep in your mind and let it be your guide. No matter what people call you, you are just who you are. Keep to this truth. You must ask yourself how is it you want to live your life. We live and we die, this is the truth that we can only face alone. No one can help us, not even the Buddha. How to Prepare Children for Divorce: "There is very little I would do differently as far as how we went about the divorce process. Once we made the decision to divorce, we knew we wanted to make it happen as peacefully as possible, and once we looked into the option of mediation, we knew it was the best route for us to go. NAMI, National Alliance of Mental Illness has a peer to peer group and there are warm lines. So here is a group in your area. It is on zoom and you can start off with your camera off and explain to the group that you are working towards turning it on and you can use the chat until you work yourself up to being able to be there out loud. Now she there, I’m here and I live in a house and town of memories of her, what did here, what we did there and so many pictures, even have the jacket that I wore when I first met her. What keeps me alive is hope that we can reunite and I can make up for all the mistakes I’ve made throughout the years of marriage.

2022.01.26 22:33 ohcrabstick Is there a point to where putting yourself first becomes selfish?

There was a quote going around on tiktok recently from bojack horsemen about one character who disappears to take care of himself but he doesn’t inform anyone which leaves all his friends worried for him not knowing where he is, and so when he is finally found, someone asks him if he thinks his action of disappearing was selfish because it left people in distress, but he then replies that sometimes people just have to put themselves first and that he’s finally happy. I agree that people should put themselves first but I just wanted to know if there was ever a point where there are things to consider before you put yourself first fully.
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2022.01.26 22:33 infoday_us Donald Trump Declares Himself The 47th President In Viral Golf Video

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2022.01.26 22:33 BroadwayRegina We have a subreddit?!

(Mariah here btw)
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2022.01.26 22:33 Traditional-Job-145 Apart from Looks, Does a Mercedes W204 Have an Edge Over an LS400 or LS430?

I've been researching about cars since I'm planning to get a used one soon. So far, my choices are: - BMW E46 318i - BMW E90 320i - LS 400 - LS 430 - Mercedes W204 (C200 2008 model) I get that the BMW "feels better to drive" and looks better compared to the Lexus models, and the Lexus models are much more comfortable and reliable. The Merc looks amazing, but I'm not sure how it actually compares to the BMWs or Lexus models in this list when it comes to comfort/how fun it is to drive.
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2022.01.26 22:33 MadManMars34 Need help ASAP! Regarding dad’s yellow skin

(Dad’s info: 56M, height: 183cm, weight: 81kg, not under any medication or any smoking)
Sup Reddit, it’s 11pm here and after some dinner my family noticed that my dad’s skin seems yellowish, both his skin and eyes. He is also getting headaches and this has been happening for some days already, so we are pretty worried.
We are currently at the beach (this started the day we arrived), and my father plans on getting the car tomorrow to go to the hospital by himself, but I can’t help but worry this might be urgent.
His symptoms really are: loss of hunger, headache and yellow eyes and skin (specially under the eyes).
Should we go for the doctor and hit the road at 11pm or would it be safe to wait for tomorrow?
Ps my dad is not a heavy drinker, could it be the liver anyway?
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2022.01.26 22:33 RebelliousPlatypus Anti Public Education Bill (mirror of bill that Colbert roasted Indiana for) easily passes Indiana House.

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2022.01.26 22:33 WonderfulBug7 Someone sent me this. What do i do?

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2022.01.26 22:33 chuckbass15 test

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2022.01.26 22:33 KyetGurl Start bootcamp, then look for jobs and start CS (and more languages)?

Is this a reasonable strategy? I have some data analysis experience (SQL, python, tableau), and I've taken a couple very very basic web dev online courses. I need to pivot my career, but the $150k pricetag of a CS degree (I'm counting living expenses, since I wouldn't be able to work enough hours or get paid enough to actually survive off of), and 4 year commitment and uncertainty of my ability to afford it, complete it, and whether the job market will be favorable in 4+ years. is just... terrifying. My academic history is terrible. It might be better because I'm better managing my mental health, it might not. I need a career change (less stress/better WLB, work that keeps me interested and learning, and pays enough to actually live off of and hopefully FIRE). Something in the broad field of engineering/software/development/data seems like a good fit for me, and CS has all or most of it.
I'm considering starting with a fullstack bootcamp and trying to get my foot in the door that way first, then (after bootcamp, whether I get a job or not), start teaching myself the other languages and skills that i think would be good to know (golang, php, swift, kotlin,, ux, graphic design, photography, R), and get started on my long and arduous journey of getting a CS degree, full-time or more until i get a job, then part-time (like 2 classes + maybe one self-taught skill). I've heard that bootcamp or CS, it's mostly about demonstrable skills, so as long as I'm learning and staying in the game, it sounds like I've got an okay shot. And hey, if I'm going to go through the effort of learning this stuff, why not have some structure and get credit for it and eventually just get my CS degree anyways? But without the debt.
Or does it make more sense to just send it and go 100-150% in on CS (and self taught practical, since they don't really teach actual coding?) and don't even bother with bootcamp, even if it means racking up debt? (I am free of bad debt and don't want to wipe out my positive NW...)
I'm not including fully self-taught because I know without SOME structure, tasks and motivation I'd never get anywhere. And peeteacher feedback is incredibly important to the learning process anyways. Not to mention my biggest expense isn't tuition or course materials, it's oxygen. Saving money on tuition just to waste it in lost income isn't a great deal.
Which option sounds better?
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2022.01.26 22:33 Single_Commission933 This is just a lighthearted jest, I love so much how they explored Tusken culture

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2022.01.26 22:33 yourlocalATFagent Arcturus AK12K mosfet compatibility

I've seen posts about the Gate NanoASR working with micro switch triggers but I was wondering if the Merf 3.2 was also compatible with micro switch triggers as it has a couple more features.
Thank you so much!
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2022.01.26 22:33 JCLicksCock F19 Feeling myself

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2022.01.26 22:33 CommunistHentai Where does Makoto sit among your favorite Y0 characters?

I feel like Makoto works so well in the game simply because Tachibana works so well in the game. Like if it was just Makoto (or even just Tachibana) I likely wouldn't have cared much about either one of them. However the same could probably be said about Nishiki and Kiryu's relationship. She's not my favorite, however it's hard to not love her. Despite all she's been through she still manages to worry about the well being of others... although admittedly some of her decisions late in the game prevent her from being in my top 3 characters. On her own she's okay, I think what really elevates the player's attachment to her is actually how well Tachibana is written. They're tragic brother sister relationship and history really makes the ending hit like a freight train.
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2022.01.26 22:33 iamaravis City ordinance regarding front yard vegetable gardens

I’m trying to find out if GB has any restrictions on planting a vegetable garden in the front yard of a house inside city limits. I searched on the city ordinance website but didn’t find anything. Does anyone here happen to know if there’s another source of info I should check?
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2022.01.26 22:33 Qschoolwinner Need 2 tix to Cornell Harvard. $300? DM me.

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2022.01.26 22:33 Jason_Brip How high do I need to get my puzzle rating on Lichess before I become a grandmaster?

Feeling motivated right now and think I might grind this out over the next few days if I can get a title for it. I have the time since my parents are going to be away. Should be really easy if I just use the analysis board on their website. And before you tell me that's cheating, if it was cheating they wouldn't have added it to the website. It's literally part of the game get over it.
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2022.01.26 22:33 LivinVidas I moved from Pennsylvania to Florida about 5 months ago AMA

I was born and raised in PA and want to give my 2 cents on the differences and similarities.
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2022.01.26 22:33 Silluvaine Semi-lucid dreamed for the first time!

I'm not sure it was completely lucid.
I sometimes I re-dream dreams I had earlier in the night. I will notice that things have happened before, it's like a replay and I know that it happened before and I can predict how it will play out because I've seen it earlier, but I can't do anything about it. At least that's how it's been every other time before.
This night my friend and I went to Germany to stay the night, we took the stairs up to the room and she got murdered (yeah weird), I didn't remember the dream until we came to the stairs and I recognise d them. I told my friend that I think she'll get killed if we go up the stairs, so instead we left the building.
And then everyone's faces disappeared.
My friend also said that she couldn't see anyone's faces (funny how she noticed that without any eyes.) That's the first time I tried changing something in a dream. We walked along the street and I predicted the places that would appear to get the faces back. "The next building is a pizzaria and we'll see someone taking a bite", "now we'll see a salon where someone's getting their makeup done" etc.
It worked and the faces came back! Then I woke up.
I know it's not much, I didn't even think about doing something fun like flying. But it feels like a small success!
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2022.01.26 22:33 Dollon_da_God It really do be like that

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2022.01.26 22:33 MFdoombot2 Akira {amv} Kanye west -Alien

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2022.01.26 22:33 Lab-Proud Best Thai in Boulder?

Specifically looking for a good Tom Kha soup
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2022.01.26 22:33 Helpmestopthisplz692 7250 5995 5988 - please add me for daily gifts!

I send gifts back fast also i'm cool 😎
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2022.01.26 22:33 hhholmelxy Nice guy from LINKEDIN, after greeting (Im a seller) he became very nice

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2022.01.26 22:33 RBolton123 The language of love

I know the phonemes you're boutta put so don't say them
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